What you're experiencing right now came as a result of the way you're thinking an2d the choices you made. To change your experience you need to think differently so you can make different choices and manifest the desires you truly want. If you find that you're not making progress towards your goal, then it's time to think different - change your thought processing, look at things from a different perspective.
Begin using these 4 action steps right away
Action Step #1 - Observe your thought patterns
Being consciously aware of your own thinking patterns will help you make the necessary adjustments you need to attract the things you desire to experience. Become an observer of your thoughts. And this can only be done by making a conscious decision to pay attention to what's going on in your mind. You can only fix something when you're aware of what's wrong.
Action Step #2 - Observe your actions
Observe your past as well as your current actions as a result of your thinking patterns. Where have they led you and where are they taking you now. How have your past actions or what you're doing now contributing to you not having the success you desire? What different set of action steps could you take right away that will give you different results?
Action Step #3 - Change your perspective
The way you think about things and process information affects the actions you will take from there. If you've been looking at, say for example, your relationship in a way that doesn't encourage loving feelings but stirs up anger and resentment, how can you look at your relationship from a different perspective? Perhaps you've been holding on to some grudge that affects the way you think about our partner, how can you release that grudge, forgive and look at your partner through a different viewpoint?
Action Step #4 - Come from a place of positive energy
If you respond to life from a place of love, life will mirror what's inside of you. If every situation you encounter you allow love to be the focal point, the walls of resentment, anger etc. will begin to lose its grip on you. Love grows, heals, unites. In the presence of love all non-life-giving energy dissipates.
No matter what adversity you face, you can turn things around by thinking differently and coming from a place of love.
If you'd like to learn a simple step-by-step process to change your thinking and transform your life, you'd want to check out The Life-Changing Map.