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Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Happy Thanksgiving + Rising up Over Limitations to Bring Out the Unique in You

Happy Thanksgiving to all my U.S. readers. I hope you have a splendid day tomorrow with family and friends.

Do you allow your limitations to hold you back? Your limitations, whether physical, mental, emotional or educational can keep you from making forward progress, if you let it.

If you allow your limitations to override your desire to succeed then you’ll find yourself feeling stuck in life – getting excited about finally making a break through only to be overcome with the fears of your personal limitations.

Let’s look what you can begin to do right away to rise up over your limitations to bring out the unique in you.



Today's Unique Feature

Each week in this ‘Bringing Out the Unique in You’ training series I’ll be showcasing Unique Hand-crafted Items all created and designed by my daughters and me.

These are one of a kind; no two items are ever the same and you’ll not find these in stores anywhere. Each item is specifically designed to bring out the unique in you.

When you purchase one of these items for yourself or for a special person in your life, use this as a symbol to be reminded each day of how unique you are. 












Brownish pink with chestnut brown and caramel brown stripes with stylish flower.  

Made from 100% acrylic yarn

Sale Price:$35.00

20% off - $28.00




**Item takes approximately 10 shipping days.

Price includes shipping and handling.


Focus on the positive outcome

As you fuel your emotions with the joy of positive outcome, you’ll find that the thoughts of your limitations holding you back become more diminished as the strength of your success builds. What you focus on and give attention to expands and overtakes your life.

Let’s look at an example. Say that you feel that you want to start a new career or get a job in a new field but you feel that you’re limited educationally in a particular area, what can you do? You can either focus on your lack of knowledge and decide to not take any action at all or you can analyze your strengths and weaknesses, see what you need to bring your skills up and take action in that positive direction.

Now, you might say that you don’t have the money right now to go back to school or take a course. Here’s where you’re focusing on your financial limitations. How can you shift your focus, your attention to help you move beyond this obstacle? Start with what you have available. Get knowledgeable using the resources that are currently accessible to you – the internet, the library, local seminars. What you’re doing is positioning yourself into moving closer to your goal.

Work out a financial plan where you can start saving in order to pay for your course. Start with what you have and keep moving forward and tweak as you go along. Your current job may not pay a lot right now but you can take a closer look at how you’re spending your money. Are you getting the best out of your money? Brand name products do not always mean better. You may be able to purchase the same thing under a different manufacturer for less money. Don’t get caught up in the ‘brand name is better’ mental conditioning. Carefully analyze your expenditure and look for ways to cut back so you can redirect your money wisely.

Is the way you see yourself negatively affecting your relationships?

Because you think that you’re not good enough or beautiful enough you think other people feel that way about you too. That may not necessarily be true. People do pick up on your personal energy however they may not share the opinion you have of yourself. Your negative view of yourself may be preventing the people that care about you from getting close to you.

Develop a positive self-image. Instead of becoming defensive, analyze yourself and take inventory of your strengths and those positive things about you. Also take note of your weaknesses but only to observe and find ways to improve them so they too also become your strengths.

Bring an end to your procrastination

Procrastination will bring any dream you have to a halt. Decide to move forward and after you’ve made the initial decision reaffirm your decision each day until you reach your goal. Then take action every day. A parked car gets nowhere. Get help when needed to shorten your learning curve.

What other things can you do to overcome your other areas of your personal limitations?

Need help discovering your unique life purpose? Why not schedule a Free 30-Minute No Obligation Self-Empowerment Session with me. You’ll gain clarity and have a better perspective on things.




Thursday, November 8, 2012

4 Tips to Using Your Thoughts to Bring Out the Unique in You

My daughter Lisalee's confidence and unique rendition of the Canada's National Anthem has been opening doors for her to sing at many different events since spring.

Tomorrow she will once again be singing O' Canada at a local luncheon in the presence of our provincial government official British Columbia's Premier Christy Clark, MLA Terry Lake and both Mayors from our local and neighbouring community.

She feels very honoured to have this privilege.

Your thoughts can either bring you down or lift you up. The way you see and believe about yourself and your life will determine the outcome and quality of your days. In order to see your uniqueness and bring out that uniqueness in you, you need to change your thoughts.

Today’s Featured Item, a crocheted hat - brown with light and darker shades of beige mixed with blue and grey, part of the rim tucked with a brown and multi-coloured flower. The brown represents the constant flow of your thoughts. The multi-colours represent the waves and changes in the combination of thought-patterns we choose to nurture. The result can be an exquisite life or chaotic.


Today's Unique Feature

Each week in this ‘Bringing Out the Unique in You’ training series I’ll be showcasing Unique Hand-crafted Items all created and designed by my daughters and me.

These are one of a kind; no two items are ever the same and you’ll not find these in stores anywhere. Each item is specifically designed to bring out the unique in you.

When you purchase one of these items for yourself or for a special person in your life, use this as a symbol to be reminded each day of how unique you are. 

Exquisite Crocheted Ladies' Hat

Brown with light and darker shades of beige mixed with blue and grey, part of the rim tucked with a brown and multi-coloured flower. 

Made from 100% acrylic yarn























Sale Price:$35.00

20% off - $28.00





**Item takes approximately 10 shipping days.

Price includes shipping and handling.



Let’s look at 4 tips that can help you use your thoughts to bring out the unique in you.

1. Use the liberty of choice

You can choose what thoughts you want to accept for your life. You have the freedom to do so and you can choose each moment of your day. The quality of your outcome will reflect the quality of your choices. However, in choosing, you need to make choices not solely based on your circumstances but heavily based on the direction you decide to go.

2. Choose quality thoughts

It is not so much how many thoughts you have in a given day but the quality of those thoughts that make the difference in your life. You can have random thoughts running around in your head that do not benefit your life or you can choose to receive and nurture positive strategically directed thoughts that will enhance your life and create a magnetic field around you that pulls in more positive outcomes in your life.

3. Build positive mental images

What kind of mental photos are you capturing? Each mental image has a vibration and the more you focus on that image the stronger the vibration of that image gets. Cancelling out negative images and replacing them with stronger positive images moves you in the direction you truly desire and brings out the uniqueness in you.

4. Let go of fear

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you’re afraid to step out and let your light shine, you’ll always be living someone else’s thoughts of you. Don’t allow your fears to dictate the quality and level of your life. Eradicate your thoughts of fear and focus on letting your truth shine true.

Need help discovering your unique life purpose? Why not schedule a Free 30-Minute No Obligation Self-Empowerment Session with me. You’ll gain clarity and have a better perspective on things.

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Let Your Sophistication Shine to Bring Out the Unique in You

Bringing Out The Unique In You


Sophistication begins from inside of you – your unique flair and style of doing things. Your personal sophistication is locked inside of you and you need to allow it to come out. Your idea of sophistication may be different from mine. But one way that you can define sophistication would be to look at the highest level of attitude and behaviour in which you can express yourself in everything you do.

Today's Unique Feature

Each week in this ‘Bringing Out the Unique in You’ training series I’ll be showcasing Unique Hand-crafted Items all created and designed by my daughters and me.

These are one of a kind; no two items are ever the same and you’ll not find these in stores anywhere. Each item is specifically designed to bring out the unique in you.

When you purchase one of these items for yourself or for a special person in your life, use this as a symbol to be reminded each day of how unique you are. 

Today’s featured item is a sophisticated blue crocheted hat with a fluffy trim and flower at the side of the hat. Wearing this exclusive one of a kind sophisticated hat reminds you that you are unique and you don’t have to ‘shrink’ when you’re around others. You matter!


Sophisticated Crocheted Ladies' Hat



Blue hat with blue fluffy trim and flower. 

Made from 100% acrylic yarn

Sale Price:$35.00

**Item takes approximately 10 shipping days.

Price includes shipping and handling.



Sophistication is not superficial. It goes way deeper than that. What we call sophisticated on the outside – such as style of clothing, house or car – is only physical. And that sophistication can be undermined by negative behaviour leaving a bitter taste in the mouths of others around you.

If we were to focus on achieving the highest standard of sophistication beginning with the way we feel and how we treat other people then the other things will all fall into place – sophistication at its highest level.

How can you achieve that?

By first examining yourself and observing your own behaviour. Do you put on a show for others externally but inside you are totally the opposite of nice? For example, you talk with a person and all smiles but underneath your breath you really hate them. How can you change this behaviour so that, yes, you may not like a person’s attitude, but at the same time you don’t hate the person either?

It all begins from the heart. Love is the greatest channel through which the highest form of pure sophistication can be expressed from within outwardly. Love in your heart brings out your personal charm that cannot be ‘put on’, cannot be faked; it naturally flows from the river of life from the deep reservoir within you.

Open your heart and allow the power of unconditional love to flow through your heart so you can express your personal sophistication and bring out the unique in you.

Need help discovering your unique life purpose? Why not schedule a Free 30-Minute No Obligation Self-Empowerment Session with me. You’ll gain clarity and have a better perspective on things.



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